I've started reading codependent no more and get that I have serious issues. Am I the only one who wonders when I became this person? A lot of people on this forum advocate getting away from their AH- but will that help if it turns out I'm the problem?
Yes sweets we all wonder when we became this person, who lets someone elses stuggles with alcohol become our problem.
You are not the problem, as far as yours bf's drinking, that is his deal. He chose. YOur deal is how do you get out from under is and find some peace for yourself.
You will get lots of support here. Can I recommend Getting Them Sober as well. It was one of the first I read and it was very helpful.
Settle in, give yourself room and time to start looking at this , it's hard and painful, but you are not alone. So glad you found the forum, welcome, we know your pain.
much love to you Katie