Back home with boundaries thanks to you
My AS is back home. After last relapse, his GF said it would be better if he wasn't living with her. So, ok, he came back here - correction, we let him come back here. Please, remember it has only been months for us dealing with this. Thanks to all of you, I understand boundaries and what the future might be. My H doesn't get it - "if he doesn't have the balls to deal with it, then he is out of here" Right, that helps. I found out today that he relapsed again - with so many relapses so close, um, isn't that just a pause - anyway - I immediately logged in to this forum and read the 10 commandments for parents. Other child had special show tonight at his school, so ignored AS, and enjoyed time with other child. I'm fairly sure this post doesn't help anyone else, but it helps me to type it. So thank you.
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and whoever wrote something like: if all it took was love and support we would not all be here... please let me know. I want to use that quote and want to attribute it correctly. thanks.
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