Hello zanzibar,
I'm really sorry that a visitor message someone posted to you upset you so much. If you would like for me to have it removed, I wil be happy to do so--just let me know.
I hope that things will improve for you very soon!
Mr. HG and I own a lovely piece of property...and it, too, is somewhat overgrown and neglected right now. I know it's a shame, but someday we will have time and energy again to take proper care of it.
I'm more concerned about you taking proper care of you. If you can't ride your bike right now, can you go for long walks with your dogs? Anything to get out of house and into the fresh air.
If you are still reading, just let me know what you would like for me to do about that visitor message.
You will be in my prayers. HG