Can I ask you something?
If this man were the boyfriend of your mom, your daughter or your very best friend ~ what would you suggest for them? would you want them to continue a relationship with someone who offers such unhealthiness? If nothing changes, can you imagine this being your relationship for the rest of your life?
I have learned in recovery ~ If I want something different, I have to be willing to do something different ~
Everyone deserves a healthy relationship where BOTH parties participate FULLY ~ if the other party is consumed by addiction ~ how can they participate in a relationship with someone else?
PINK HUGS,
Rita