Yeah, I hear you. He's giving me the old song and dance about being able to do it without rehab (plus how the rehab will affect his job) and how this will be the end. I believe that he believes this of course but I'm also realistic enough to get that it's unlikely and that he's not ready to be without anything. But, I see it as his mistake to make and if I fight it, I will just be continuing the Codie behavior that I'm trying to overcome. There are no good answers here.