The newest news, as of tonight, is that he's going to buy 30 days worth of pills (at the bargain price of $500!!!) and detox himself from the pills altogether. He says he will continue to see his therapist but refuses to get the pills from his psychiatrist, which is free through his insurance mind you). When I ask why, he says I don't understand but as long as I will support him through this, help him detox, and help him to research herbal detox remedies, he will be able to get through this and past his dependency on all pills.
Now, I may be new to the boards but I'm not new to this game. I know how this will end up and I know that I should not (and will not) help him detox nor research a flipping thing. The hard part I'm having is with my response without appearing unsupportive. By the way, I've made arrangements to go to my first Alanon meeting tomorrow night.