I am sorry you have feelings for this addict, because I don't think he cares how you feel or he would call. You cannot work out anything with a couple if one of the two is not involved, and he doesn't seem to be involved at all.
When I finally got it, I realized I was last on his list of things to do, a chore his mom gave him to do. After all, I might want to talk about our relationship, or problems the children were having in school. I was always the problem chore.
I got tired of being last on the list, and treated like a problem. I deserved better and so do you.
You will get tired of this soon. When you get apathetic, then you can let go and move on.
Wishing you peace and a lift to your self esteem.
:ghug3
Beth