I am with you 100%! I too was never a social drinker (oh, one exception: I would drink BEFORE a party so I could be social, but drank very little once there). I was a private drinker in my own little world. Not a bar woman, not loud, not out there wild--just far far away from myself and everyone, in a place of peace and euphoria where I suddenly came alive, where my creativity soared, and all my problems went away.... until the morning! so, NO I am not affected by social drinkers. Remember that though we're all the same as far as our powerlessness over alcohol goes, we are also all different.
Zorah