I understand......when others drink it does NOTHING for or to me. I've told my wife that when she drinks (1 drink 3 or 4 nites a week) it doesn't bother me in the least.
Partys.....no big deal.
Drinking is something I do WHEN I want to...which is usually before I prepare dinner on my days off and AFTER work on my days of labor. Thats it. But its every single day.