Controlling people?
Do people who have controlling personalities and like to control and manipulate others, not actually know that they are doing so?
Example, my father. He is panicking because he can no longer control my mom, and he is blame-shifting. Saying that he doesn't trust my mom's lawyer, that my mom's sisters are filling her head with things about him ( like my mom can't think for herself), I asked him why is he burdening me with all this stuff and he said it's because he has no one else to turn to.
My dad is not an alcoholic nor addict, so why does he act so much like one?