you need to not be concerned with his comfort, only yours right now. I dont know your whole situation but sounds like somthing im going through. Mygirl never used and im going through withdrawls now for my 6th attempt she is just like its the same thing over and over and is just kinda acts fed up. I understand the whole feeling lonely thing today i just joined this ws for the same reason. just dont use whatever your going through it will just make things worse say a prayer if that is your thing if not think about trying it really helping me right now. I dont know how to post a question can anyone help?