Originally Posted by
CaiHong 
Hi John,
Remember the pain you are going through when you feel like another drink. It is the alcohol that is making you "weak".
I think when people are vulnerable they are at their most lovable, the pain is exposed and
They are not hiding behind a lot of BS.
I am not a huggy person but I would love to offer you a firm handshake.
We are all in this together.
Love
CaiHong
And i would shake your hand firmly (my dad was a marine...i was taught early on to give a firm handshake).
Then, I would give you a big hug
