Sometimes it's tough to try and find old threads.
I recommend...
"Drinking: A Love Story" by Caroline Knapp
"Diary of an Alcoholic Housewife" by Brenda Wilhelmson
"Under The Influence" by James Robert Milam and Katherine Ketcham
"Sober for Good" by Anne M. Fletcher
and of course...
"Rational Recovery: The New Cure for Substance Addiction" by Jack Trimpey
Some books that I have that I have yet to read...
"One Breath at a Time: Buddhism and the Twelve Steps" by Kevin Griffin {even though I'm not into AA I thought I would give this a shot}
"Addiction and Grace: Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addiction" by Gerald G. May
Some books that are on my wishlist...
"Loaded: Women and Addiction" by Jill Talbot
"Understanding the Alcoholic's Mind" by Arnold M. Ludwig
Don't know of any movies really...
Hope this helped somewhat and gave you some ideas.
Ps. I got all my books off of Amazon.