Welcome to the SR family!
I hope you will make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed. We understand living with addiction, and we are here to support you.
I am always finding wisdom from the posts of members with more experience than myself. There is a collection of posts that contain such wisdom at the top of this main page. They are called the "sticky posts". They are older posts that are preserved for everyone to read and re-read as needed.
Here is a link to one of my favorite sticky posts and it contains steps that helped me while living with active alcoholism in my home:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html 