Thank you everyone. I'm in zombie mode a bit right now- one foot in front of another. I know I'll find a solution & always do. I think I'm having a bit of a pity party right now bc I just would like a teeny break from constant turmoil & dealing w work now feels like an interaction w AH. I guess years of experience dealing w AH blaming & accusing & making unfounded accusations prepared me to at least not crumble during the underhanded maneuvers at work during the past 2 days.
Oddly rather than rage at AH I feel pity more than anything right now. Not sympathy or even sorrow for him but pity bc for all he is doing to the girls & I he clearly is one tormented f'ed up guy. I'll survive I'm sure but he has nowhere to go but down if he stays on this path.
I suppose I can always rebuild my career & reputation & I'll always have my integrity. Right now all he has is anger & resentment & that's got to blow up in his face at some point right?