Originally Posted by
SadHeart 
But aren't forgiving and giving chances two different things? I think they are. I think they are completely independent of one another. I can forgive you and never give you another chance, and I can give you endless chances without forgiving you.
We cross posted so I didn't see this before I replied.
Isn't that the truth!! I am done with chances and that has opened the door for forgiveness and that feels very good. Before it was just like you said - all chances and no forgiveness. Just anger, resentment, and bitterness -which was me being opposite of how I thought of myself in my head.