I NEED someone face to face. If your in CA and I'm in NY, how am I supposed to trust someone if I never see them?? I just texted her and said I'm going to start my 4th step because for the last 7 months, I've been doing 1-3. And why w the sex inventory? I rather not share that w anyone bc honestly its very personal. There's something called being "too-close" and I have a hard time w trust to begin with.