Welcome Spybee007
Reading your post brought back memories. I was in my early thirties when I had what I hope was my last drink. Like 2granddaughters, I found sobriety in the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous. I went to A.A. meetings, read the Big Book, got a sponsor, worked the steps and got a service commitment. That's what worked for me. I hope you find what works for you.
Peace