Originally Posted by
upintheair 
I'm not an alcoholic. My fiance has a drinking problem. I've been getting all kinds of helpful advice, like run like the wind! I'd like to ask from your perspectives as people with a problem, trying to overcome it, what made you decide you'd had enough? Did you have to lose it all to decide that you couldn't live that lifestyle any longer? Did it require you to hit rock bottom?
hello
well if you want help the best way is to the Family/Friends Of Alcoholics Section. There you can get help with others whose friends, husbands, wives, girlfriends, boyfriends are alcoholics but not themselves
Hope I helped
Though I guess we alcoholics can help too
