Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
Families are strange in their ways. It's much easier to pass judgement on someone who is not related to you then it is to look inward at your own dysfunction. I know I have been judged and deemed a bad wife for moving out just when my husband sought recovery, but I don't care. My marriage is mine and my husband's business, end of story.
Try your best not to worry about it and focus on wrapping up the details of the ~T
Thank you, I think that there really is no rational explanation for his family's behavior because it's not rational! His brother was previously addicted to crack and now smokes pot daily, from what I hear. His wife told me she thinks it's okay because it's not crack. And his mother has been dating an alcoholic for about a decade. She thinks it's okay because they don't live together and she never intends to move in with him.