I also need to add that his sponsor said tonight that my husband can only work on one problem at a time and he needs to do it alone. Basically my husband is to set his marriage aside an focus completely on himself and if and when he is better he is supposed to come to me. I guess his sponsor is expecting me to stick around and wait. I guess this would also explain why he has been married and divorced 7 times. To me this is going to break the bond in our marriage. I am not strong enough to be neglected on a daily basis.