Hi Anna - thanks for your reply. I am happy with myself for going several days (I am trying to not focus on the exact number for my own reasons) with no urge or feeling to drink and then able to have the glass of wine. I am not ready to deal with talking to my close friends/neighbors/"husband". It was easier to sip on the wine than to call attention to the fact that I was not having anything (which may have gone unnoticed).
For the most part, he is my trigger - and I think he would be very sad to know that - but, it is the truth!!