it's so nice to see someone move on from the drama and actually let go. so many of us keep looking back and you sound so healthy and determined and like you actually did have enough. nothing like an alcoholic to suck the living hell out of a marriage, the love, trust, affection, everything goes, alcohol is the great remover, I love that term, it is true. so true. I am happy for you, no one needs that nor deserves any of it. life is too short to be stuck in a hurricane in a tunnel and don't I know that too. great news. happy for you. m