Hi all, sorry my posts have been so sparce.
I left my AH right after Christmas.
I've been living with a close friend since. It's been hard, as she lives about an hour from my job, so the commute was killing me.
As of last Friday, I officially have my own place!
I got a one-bedroom apartment for me, my DS ( age 2), and our dog. It has a lot of space, it's really close to work, and it feels like home.
The divorce is still going really slowly, but AH is being somewhat reasonable, since he's living with his parents and is fighting his ex in court, as well as his 4th DWI.
He still thinks I overreacted by leaving, and that since his drinking "isn't a problem" that I must have just been cheating and needed an excuse to leave. Lol quack quack quack.
Anyway, I haven't looked back, or lost any sleep over any of it. I've actually been surprisingly calm, and happy! Oh, and I sleep so good. it's nice to have hope for a better future again.
Thank you to all of you who listened, advised, and were just there for me. I don't know if I could have done this for my DS and I without you. :ghug3