Originally Posted by
m1k3 
I agree with Anvil. Once someone has destroyed your trust in them there is no way to get it back. I tried several times to rebuild that trust but it was crushed each time. That is why I now look at everything my AW says as a lie or manipulation, that is why we are getting divorced. Doesn't matter if she is using or not, doesn't matter if she is recovering or not, I will NEVER trust her again.
Your friend,
Mike
amen to this. My sentiments exactly. There is not one thing in the world my AH could do to be with me, or have me trust him again. Destroyed irrevocably.
I wish him well...but it won't EVER be anywhere around me again.