I agree with Anvil. Once someone has destroyed your trust in them there is no way to get it back. I tried several times to rebuild that trust but it was crushed each time. That is why I now look at everything my AW says as a lie or manipulation, that is why we are getting divorced. Doesn't matter if she is using or not, doesn't matter if she is recovering or not, I will NEVER trust her again.
Your friend,
Mike