Parties, bars, and clubs = fun. Why? Because it's social, fun, music, girls and you get to meet tons of new people and you get laid easily. So who has sober activities to replace those?
Like I said - I got used to fun in a bottle. Even after I got sober I had no idea how to have fun sober.
But I learned - I had to...when that's your idea of fun - and you're unwilling to consider other possibilities - you're making a very hard road for yourself, recovery wise.
I had to move past that idea of fun and I'm glad I did, cos I grew a lot.
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