Since he's not actively drinking, I like to think that there's some hope for a better future. Unfortunately, my fear needs to be checked daily. As far as safety goes, my AH has never been a problem in that area. If he did relapse and continued with addict behavior I would have to change my plans and ask him to move out but for now, he is doing his own thing: abstaining from alcohol without a program, drinking his NA beer, and telling me that his lawyer says he can put an ignition interlock device on a beater car, LOL! I still think he thinks I'm naive enough to believe that one!