Originally Posted by
Thelma 
One word......manipulation!!! You grew a backbone and are taking control of your life so of course he's going to find fault in what you're doing. Stick to your guns. Don't let anyone sway your decision. Deep down you know this is for the best.
This!!!
Good on you for having a spine and knowing how to use it. Don't worry about being perceived as the 'bad guy.' Alcoholics love bad guys as long as they aren't them.