The 22 grand has been what he has lived on for the last 15 months. Without this job, he has nowhere to go but the streets, jail (he was sentenced to 60 days for a DUI and did not serve it), a shelter, or the Salvation Army. I finally get that any of the above is preferable to me continuing to bail him out. I mean, I always intellectually "got that", but this time I feel it too.
Yes, I'm finally ready to be totally done.