ARGG!!!! i just wrote this whole page essay on why this was a bad idea and how i met my wife in rehab 10 years ago yada yada yada you all know the ending, and it got lost some how. Anyways, do what you want laurie, its your life and your choices, but I have a stonge feeling you will wish you listened to these people that have replied here above me they know what they are talking about. wicked big hugs to you