Positive vibes going your way right now from Canada!!! CRIPES girl! This totally blows. Your AH... he seems like a psychopath to me... absolutely no remorse for his actions and is intentionally doing things to f*ck you over (physcially, mentally and spiritually). That's not love... that's PSYCHO!!
Here's to a successful meeting... to maintaining your job in good standing and for you to keep your head raised high and proud - as Ann said earlier "When we can stand in our own truth, even when we stand alone, we will find the courage to face whatever life hands us." - very powerful... but know you are not standing alone... that there are so many of us here in spirit with you k?
HUGE freaking hugs to you, :ghug3