(((Kcola))) - no disrespect taken. I did okay on crack, for a while, too. Even after I got clean, then started "dabbling"...could easily do it once a month. Then twice, then....relapse.
Just because he isn't doing it 24/7, doesn't mean he isn't going to. I hate to sound like "Debbie downer" but my motto is prepare for the worst, pray for the best...and hands off the addict.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy