((Rae))
Alcoholics like to be in control. Even though you aren't with him, it gives him a giant thrill that he is still in control of your emotions. Don't give him the satisfaction. Come to us, to your close friends, or to your family with your grief. To him, act like you have never been happier. It will ruin whatever he is doing at that time. You will eventually heal, but you don't have to let him prolong that process. Hugs, Magic
PS This lesson was learned from 30 years of dealing with controlling alcoholics. It works so well if you can pull it off!
Last edited by Magichappens; 03-31-2012 at 08:54 PM.
Reason: PS