Welcome to the SR family!
I hope you will make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed. I recommend reading in the sticky posts. The stickies are located at the top of this forums main page. There are about 14 topics in the stickies that have little padlock symbols in the left column. These are older, permanent posts that are preserved because of their wisdom and inspiration.
This is a link to one of my favorite sticky posts. It contains steps that helped me while I was living with active alcoholism:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html