Originally Posted by
Amelia13 
is he allowed to attend an Al Anon meeting with me so that he can see things on the other side so to speak?
Absolutely!
That said, I'd have a few suggestions.
If there are multiple meetings available in your area, I
wouldn't take him to your favorite meeting(s) - that way they stay your safe haven.
Also, see if you can locate any "Open Al-Anon" meetings, which can be attended by anyone for any reason. One of those meetings would be more appropriate, if you have that option.
