My logical brain knows you are all correct, my codie brain is saying "are you crazy? how could you leave him alone this soon "unattended" haha! Sorry, but the "unattended" part is funny to me. I know that I did more than my part when I chose to stick by him through this mess, would've been a lot easier to walk away (at least temporarily), as this revelation has turned my world upside down. Not to mention all the weekend trips I left my children with family so I could go trecking up there to his rehab for Family Day and counseling. Don't get me wrong, those things were my choices and I don't regret them......but you are right, it's high time I do something for myself for a change, not to mention my babies. So why am I so damn nervous about it?