I don't go to many meetings, but I work the steps into my life. The steps are a life saver for me today.
Be careful with your relationship as we alkies sometimes don't like being alone with ourselves, so if we don't like being with ourselves or try to find out who we are, how will another person get to know the
real us? Just saying, it's tricky, but it does work for some people.
Sorry if this sounds negative, I just have a bad picker and I've had AA relationships in my past. In fact, my son is an AA baby (he's 16 now). My other relationship, well, he changed from alcohol to food as an addiction, instead of working the steps, trying to fill the void inside of him.
Remember
your own sobriety comes first.
I wish you well in sobriety!