Yes, I'm hoping to find a way to make this happen - to get away from my drunk A for good. Unfortunately there are several obstacles in my way. We live in a foreign country, most of our money is tied up in this property that we can't sell. Because I am a foreigner I am not allowed to work. I probably could get a job, but if caught I would be deported. SO it's not going to be easy. But having had a small glimpse lately of normal life, I know that is what I want. If I keep thinking and praying and looking for options maybe something will come my way.