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Old 03-22-2012, 05:29 PM
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wellnowwhat
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When I was starting to tell my AH that I thought he drank too much I noticed that he started to hide how much he was drinking, Then, with glorious hindsight, I realized that he had always hidden how much he was drinking.

When I would tell him this he would take it like a man, no excuses and no false promises. And no change, just more hiding.

I don't think I've seen him actually drink for years although he is a daily drinker. It used to include drinking in the morning, but that has stopped after he detoxed for a couple of weeks in a hospital.

If I would have know this I would never have married him. Please consider putting the brakes on your plans. It's a lot cheaper and easier to change your mind before than after.

Sending kind thoughts your way.
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