Wow, now I'm overwhelmed by all your responses! Thank you all. I did not go to the meeting. As these things workout, I had two people I can lean on call me out of the blue.
Went to bed early, got some good sleep, feel much better now!
"you can't save your ass and your face too" LOVE IT! That's going in my book of wisdom.
To the lady that lost her husband, my heart goes out to you! We know people care and want to help, but if you haven't been there.............
Thanks again to ALL,
Ron