Help! I'm sober 36 days and my girlfriend won't stop drinking
Help please! I am totally surrendered to God and my aa program now! I am in my early 20's and just got out of rehab last week, and I LOVE AA AND MY WONDERFUL SUPPORT NETWORK! BUT MY GIRLFRIEND WHOM I LOVE VERY MUCH STILL WANTS TO DRINK WHEN WE AREN'T TOGETHER, BUT I WORRY SHE WILL CHEAT WHEN SHE IS DRUNK BECAUSE SHE GETS FLIRTY WHEN SHE DRINKS, SOOOOO WHY DOESNT SHE CARE ENOUGH TO STOP ALTOGETHER FOR ME?? WE ARE BOTH ALMOST FINISHED WITH COLLEGE AND WE LOVE EACHOTHER, BUT WHY DOESN'T SHE UNDERSTAND ITS HARD FOR ME TO HEAR HER TALK ABOUT HOW SHE FEELS WHEN SHE'S DRINKING WHEN SHE ISNT WITH ME, AND WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I KNOW IT'S MY SOBRIETY, BUT IT FEELS SO SELFISH OF HER TO DO THIS TO ME, AM I WRONG??????
I need help please, I have embraced the aa program and have a sponsor, but my sponsor's wife still drinks too, so I don't think he is much help.