yep...hanging out with other people in recovery...absolutely! it's called fellowship, and I'll let you in on something amazing...conversations are often about things like: integrity, honesty, willingness, openness, spirituality, forgiveness...etc etc
in my humble opinion I think recovery people are awesome!!!!!!!
I'm one of them, and I loved it when my ex had his solid fellowship going on. it's a GREAT sign of recovery happening!
it's also kind of natural for loved ones to become a little hurt or "jealous"
it's a great opportunity for you to stretch your wings in your own relationships other than him, and to make new ones maybe in recovery yourself...you may find that you NEED that kind of relationship because others understand