The way I look at this site...It's a recovery site....You can pretty much identify if someone has a substance abuse problem...Being here is the first sign...You can offer advice about the dangers of detoxing alone and what recovery methods are available...Whether they take any of that or not...Who knows....As far as offering advice on relationships goes...This could be an all sober site...And that's a pretty tough nut to crack...You only hear one side of it anyway.....I've done pretty well on my own in the many relationships I've been in ...Whether they were great or I drove them right into the gutter.