Ceejaysbag
My husband cut up his credit cards and debit card because money was a huge trigger…
He just then had to walk into bank to get cash, it never stopped him from using. Actually no safety net stopped him from using then. Now all of them are more valid and mean something and work as they should. And I respect his right to have whatever safety nets he needs. I sure have mine.
I don’t think anyone answered but if he asks for his card back give it to him in that instant minus any reaction you could think up. Just give it to him and let go.