Thank you Ann, this is a timely post. I have decided to make a "Thank you" list for each of my enemies or people I have problems with, one by one. I started with my XH and by the time I finished, I felt truly so grateful towards him. I realised what a big help he was in my personal growth. Some of the things I felt thankful for are:
- He gave me two beautiful children
- Thanks to him I had to learn to become financially independent
- Thanks to him, I became a much stronger person and learnt to deal with difficult people
- Thanks to him I took a very good stock take of myself and learnt who I truly am
- He did give me love
- He showed me a different side to life and thanks to him I knew I didn't want to follow that road
The list goes on and on. I came to see that he was a man that brought me many gifts. I intend to do the same with my AS.