Originally Posted by
DisplacedGRITS 
So i my husband has described himself as an an agnostic to me for all these years (been together 11) and tonight he says he's an atheist. I hate it. How can he be in Al-Anon as an athiest?
You've been around SR for quite a while DG, do you really need to ask this question? If so, you have either not been reading other threads, or you nave not been processing what you are reading.
Originally Posted by
DisplacedGRITS I feel like he's lied to me and is just giving me lip service yet again. I'll keep going to AA but we just had a knock down drag out fight. I took my pillow and a blanket to the couch. I feel betrayed. How can you believe in a Higher Power if you believe in nothing?
Sounds to me like you've found a reason to take the attention off your past and recent lying, and thrown it at your husband.
Personally, I don't don't see much of a leap from agnostic, to atheist, or vice versa. Also, on that note, people are allowed to change, isn't that why we are all here?