Originally Posted by
DisplacedGRITS 
Lots of mis communications of both of our parts and i guess some things that he's changed his mind about that he hasn't told me but he believes in the community which is good. I love him and though i believe i can do it without him, i don't want to. Thanks a ton Jitterbugg for putting things into perspective.perspective
Bingo ! We really have to learn to be honest, focused and specific when we are communicating or debating. That's why "principals before personalities" is so important as well.
Read don Miguel Ruiz's book "The 4 agreements" (just google to see the agreements which will help).
All the best.
Bob