Another hard part about afterwards is he did not really live with us for 8 years. Yes ins and outs. We now live in a city a few hours from his home turf, so he is coming here knowing the rules. He did not live in this city and knows 0 people. That could be good or bad. Perhaps wrong perhaps right, I do not know yet. So far this has been a positive future plan with him and his Conusoler in that he is not returning to the h+ll hole he crawled out of. He has been to the Recruiter/ recruiter visits him and has been told this is a stable plan when the year passes afterwards, as he is not running away. Others there they advise not to go as it may be a get away plan.