Originally Posted by
Diva76 
Hmmm...I'm not sure if that last remark was a dig or not?
I have to say that I myself used FB as a way to keep up on my ex. I told myself I wanted to make sure he was doing alright. Oh, he was. I learned:
He's happier after dumping me
He's has a new "love" and they're happy as clams
He began seeing her well before he ended things with me
So the result of my spying was a deep hurt that I am still working on. It's a great social site if all is well, but it will often lead to further entangling ourselves in people's lives, which will only bring us more hurt. I had to block ole Ma and Pa Kettle ( ex and his new love) before I drove myself insane with more questions. Maybe you could do the same and ask those around you to as well?
Just some thoughts based on my experience
